Advance notice: I have
no medical training. This is not
I am an almost 70-year-old woman who
pierced her own earlobes recently. Why? Decades of life's
events, heavy dangly swinging earrings, and minor
accidents over the years had resulted in the holes in my
earlobes being stretched-out and ugly. There were many
earrings that I no longer could wear. In November 2019, I
had repair surgery on the earlobes. Total surgery cost
was $1,400. Plastic surgeon was Dr. Jennifer Parker-Porter, in downtown Bethesda, Maryland. She was
excellent. Surgery was painless and took less than 30
minutes; stiches came out seven days after the surgery.
Eight weeks post surgery, the scars were barely visible.
Doctor had said that the lobes could be pierced again
after eight weeks. She also said not to pierce at or thru
Basic research had me decide against a
piercing "gun" or any device that pushed a stud
thru the lobe. That method is harsh on skin and can cause
trauma. My skin is old, and there already was a scar in
each lobe. Best method for the skin would be needle
piercing with a hollow surgical needle that came to a
triangular point. Piercing needles are similar to
hypodermic needles -- the needles used for injecting
medicine. (Perhaps they are the same thing with different
names.) Unfortunately, every piercing salon I contacted
said, "No piercing until one year after the repair
surgery." One year for a 70-year-old woman is a long
time; it could be a tenth of my remaining life, or maybe
even more than a tenth. I'd worn earrings every day from
when old Doc Spalding pierced my earlobes when I was 16 until
November 2019 when the lobes were repaired. Waiting a
year was not an acceptable option.
Thus, because no "professional
piercer" would help, after 12 weeks of healing for
the earlobes, I decided to pierce them myself. Having
opted to birth a baby at home in 1984, deciding to pierce
my own earlobes was nothing.
First, a list of the supplies and
cream: Mithra+ 10%
Why 10% lidocaine?
Because I don't like pain. I found a few mentions
of the product online, and I saw a YouTuber
pierce her own earlobes after application of 10%
lidocaine. She said that she could not feel
anything, and her face showed no sign of any
pain. The product is not available over the
counter in the USA. I found it for sale online HERE. It ships from Asia. It took about 10
days to get to me in Maryland, USA. Cost was $15.
My earlobes were totally numb, and I did not feel
anything -- not even the slightest pinch.
- Needles: 20-gauge cannula piercing needles.
Why cannula needles rather than typical
Because the cannula-needle system allowed for
easier insertion of the ear stud, and because it
got the needle out of the picture as soon as
possible. A cannula needle is basically a
piercing needle inside plastic tubing. The needle
pierces, and the tubing goes right along with the
Why 20-gauge rather than 18-gauge?
Because I wanted the tiniest hole possible, and
because I reasoned that the smaller cut from the
20-gauge would hurt less than a cut from the
slightly larger 18-gauge.
Where does one find cannula needles?
Online, from several sources. They come
pre-sterilized in a sealed package, typically
five to a sealed package. (Five for $9, at
Amazon.) Inside the package of five, each
pre-sterilized needle is inside a hard-plastic
two-piece casing that is sealed with a strip of
Note #1: Needles must NOT be reused. One
must use a new needle for each piercing.
Note #2: Once the needles arrived, I used
one needle from the package to figure out how the
cases opened and to look over the actual needle
and tubing, so as to figure out how things would
happen, and to figure out how to hold the needle
with my fingers to do the piercing.
- Ear studs: unalloyed commercially pure (CP)
titanium studs, with extra long posts and
I found what I wanted sold online, called "Titanium Healing/Starter
Post Earrings." They are made of pure grade
2 titanium. They are tiny "dots" (4 mm
spheres) on 13 mm long posts: $35.
Why unalloyed titanium?
Because it has no nickel. Of all available
metals, unalloyed titanium is the least likely to
cause allergic reactions.
Why extra long posts?
Because earlobes swell in the first days after
piercing. The post needs to be long enough to
accomodate the swell.
Why butterfly backs rather than internally
threaded screw-on ear studs?
Because a butterfly back is easier for my
slightly arthritic hands to manipulate.
Why studs rather than hoops?
I want the healed pierced tunnel to be a straight
tunnel, rather than a curved tunnel as would
result from the curve of the wire on a typical
- Clamps: disposable slotted Pennington
What do they do?
The clamp holds the skin in place, front to back,
to make for a straighter piercing. Pressure of
the clamp might provide additional numbing, but
that was not needed.
Where does one find them?
Online, from several sources. They arrive
pre-sterilized, each in its own sealed plastic
bag. (Ten for $10, at Amazon.)
Because no one can get her hands absolutely
alcohol prep wipes.
Because one cannot overdo germ killing when
puncturing one's skin.
razor blades: new,
in unopened hard-plastic dispenser pack.
Blade was to slice off plastic gizmo on end of
the tube, once the tube was thru my earlobe.
Note: Dispenser pack has one side of the
container for disposal of used blades.
- Markers: new, fine-point, water-soluble markers.
Note: Use a new marker for each ear.
Sterile saline wound wash in spray can.
Additionally, I had a large stainless
steel tray, washed and wiped down with isopropyl alcohol.
The tray was for holding supplies during the piercing.
The process began 24 hours before the piercing:
No milk or alcohol for 24 hours before the piercing. Why?
Milk and/or alcohol can reduce the effect of the
Eight hours before the piercing, the ear-studs
and butterfly backs went into a container of isopropyl
alcohol, making sure that they were completely covered
Two hours before the piercing, I took
extra-strength Tylenol, for added pain relief.
An hour before piercing, the numbing began.
- Tied back hair.
- Washed area with soap and water.
- Covered each earlobe with hot
washcloth for 5 minutes, so as to open pores to
help drug get into skin.
- Applied isopropyl alcohol with
cotton balls. Dried completely with fresh cotton
- Covered front and back of each
earlobe with 2 to 3 mm thickness of lidocaine
- Sealed over with Saran Wrap (clear
- Waited 30 minutes.
- After 30-minute wait, cleared off
each earlobe with tissue or paper towel.
- Applied fresh layer of lidocaine
- Sealed again with Sarah Wrap.
- Waited another 30 minutes.
- Then, wiped off numbing cream with
tissue or paper towel.
- Wiped front and back of each lobe
with alcohol-soaked cotton balls.
Once totally numb, the steps toward piercing
- Sliced thru paper tape holding
together the two parts of the hard-plastic cases
holding the two cannula needle. Did not want to
be fiddling with that later.
- Put on rubber gloves.
- Removed ear studs and backings
from alcohol; placed on alcohol-wiped stainless
- Once more, cleaned front and back
of earlobes with alcohol-soaked cotton balls.
- Next, wiped lobes w/ a fresh
alcohol prep. (You canNOT do too much germ
- Used new marker on each earlobe to
put a tiny dot, marking exactly where to pierce
- I had scar tissue. I had to be
sure NOT to pierce thru the scar tissue. I opted
for directly behind the verticle scar.
- Clamped 1st earlobe, positioning
clamp such that dot was inside open area of
- Opened hard-plastic case that held
new cannula needle. Removed needle.
The actual piercing.
- Holding needle in fingers as I'd
previously figured out how to do with practice
needle, pierced earlobe at mark, inside open area
of clamp. There was absolutely no feeling. Understand: It's not that it
was "bearable pain." Rather, not only
was there zero pain, there was absolutely NO feeling.
- Pushed needle entirely thru lobe.
Actual piercing did not take one second.
- Then, pulled needle from the tube
and left plastic tubing thru earlobe.
- Pushed tubing thru earlobe until
plastic piece on end of tubing stopped tube from
going thru lobe.
- Placed needle back inside
hard-plastic casing that it came in. Put it
- Back to earlobe:
Held tubing in place, and removed clamp.
- Adjusted tubing so that there was
some more tubing on front side of lobe.
Held tube in position on back side of earlobe.
- Used new razor blade to slice off
plastic attachment at end of tube.
- While holding tube in place from
backside, inserted post of ear-stud into open end
of tubing on front side of earlobe.
- With post of ear-stud inside tube,
pushed ball of ear-stud such that tubing went
thru earlobe. Stud moved right into place.
- Pulled tubing off back of
- Pushed on butterfly backing.
The entire sixth step -- from picking
up the needle to pushing the butterfly back onto the
ear-stud -- took less than three minutes, perhaps less
than two minutes.
Earlobe was pierced, and ear-stud was in place.
- Cleaned earlobe again with
alcohol-soaked cotton balls, front and back.
- Sprayed with Bactine Max, front
Repeated exactly for second earlobe.
Needle disposal: For safety, used duct tape to
wrap around each container holding a needle. Different
areas have different laws regarding needle disposal, but
securing each needle inside its hard plastic container
was the first step.
- Clean piercings twice daily with
sterile saline wound wash.
- For good measure, spritz with
- Initial studs stay in place for
- For the 1st changing, use cannula
tube for an assist:
Remove butterfly backing.
Push tube onto stud on back of your earlobe.
Slide stud out, and the tube will come thru the
piercing hole, moving with the stud since the
tube is pushed onto the stud.
From the front side, remove trainer stud from
tube. Insert stud of new earring into tube. Push
earring in place. Remove tube from back of new
ear stud. Push on butterfly back.
Again: I have no medical training. This
is not medical advice. This is
what I did and what worked for me.
This is a far cry from the method that
I used for some girlfriends back in the 1960s: I used a
big sewing needle. The only "numbing" was from
ice cubes; ice cubes can do things to the skin such that
there can be tissue damage while piercing. The sewing
needle just punched thru; it did not slice such as a
piercing needle does. Once the hole was punched, then I
had to work the post of the ear-stud or ear wire thru the
hole. Sometimes, it amounted to a re-piercing. It was a
really crude method of ear piercing, but all of my